Sleeplessness is a common companion of newborn parenthood😪. But fear not! We hold the key to that first glorious night of uninterrupted sleep.&nbsp;<hr>How much sleep do newborns need?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/froala/boards/4100/743c0f59-8360-4216-9c04-49487219f3d9.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">In the early weeks, your baby may sleep a lot😴, but usually not for more than two to four hours at a time, day or night. Newborns typically initially sleep around 14 to 18 hours a day and around 12 to 16 hours per one-month-old. However, because their stomachs are small, they wake up every two to three hours to eat🧑&zwj;🍼. It&#39;s common for babies to have their days and nights reversed, sleeping longer during the day and being more alert at night. This phase will eventually pass!&nbsp;<hr>My baby sleeps too much. Is it okay?&nbsp;<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/froala/boards/4100/0702f26d-db26-41b0-b0e2-b38a81bd8bd1.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">Ah, the delightful world of newborn sleep😣! Brace yourself for the eat-sleep-repeat cycle. In those early weeks, your little one will master snoozing, briefly waking up to refuel before dozing off again. But don&rsquo;t worry! As they hit one month, get ready for wide-eyed moments as they explore the fascinating world.Newborns handle about an hour to an hour and a half of wakefulness before demanding some quality nap time. Beauty sleep is crucial🛌, after all! And those extra-long snooze sessions? No worries! It&#39;s usually harmless. They might be catching up after a mini-cold, experiencing growth spurts, or recovering from superhero shots. But if marathon sleep comes with a fever or respiratory distress, reach out to your pediatrician!&nbsp;<hr>Tips to help your baby sleep&nbsp;<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/froala/boards/4100/86f85f1a-981f-4b6f-8acb-7acc03ea610a.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">🌙Create a nighttime routineCreating a nighttime routine for your baby can be a wonderful way to help them relax and prepare for sleep. It establishes a sense of consistency and signals that it&#39;s time to wind down. Here are some tips to help you start a soothing nighttime routine:🌙Begin by setting a consistent bedtime for your baby.&nbsp;Choose a specific time to put them to bed each night. This regularity helps establish a sleep pattern and supports their internal clock.🌙Create a calm and peaceful environment in the bedroom.Dim the lights, close the curtains, and minimize noise to create a soothing atmosphere. These adjustments help your baby understand that it&#39;s time to sleep. Establish a sequence of relaxing activities that you can do before bedtime. This can include giving your baby a warm bath, reading a story, singing a lullaby, or gently rocking them. The goal is to choose activities that promote relaxation and comfort.

Tips to help your baby sleep

Did you know breastfeeding can be much easier with proper positioning? Sore nipples, latching, and other breastfeeding problems can be solved if you do it in the right position💪!Some trials and errors will be needed, but as long as you find the position that works the best for you, you&rsquo;ll be a pro at breastfeeding your baby!😎<hr>How to hold the baby <img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3915/b3072eeb-b727-4c1f-bf1b-16cc0529e8f0.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">Let&rsquo;s learn from the basics - how to hold your baby🤱. Place your baby on one side, toward your breasts. Your baby&rsquo;s whole body should face your chest, and his/her ear, shoulder, and hip have to align in a straight line. The baby&rsquo;s body also has to be straight in line with the body, not turn to the side. Using a nursing pillow can help you because it can lower the weight and adjust the height👍.<hr>Find your best position for breastfeeding!<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3915/9ff30fab-5ef5-42e3-b9c6-49a473545b1e.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">Now, if you are ready, try these 5 positions and see which works best for you!👩&zwj;🍼Cradle holdCradle position is when you put your baby in your arms like they are lying in a cradle. For this position, bend your one elbow and rest your baby&rsquo;s head in, and use the hand on the same side to support the baby&rsquo;s body. 👶Now, use your other hand to cup your breast. Place your thumb above your nipple and your index finger at the spot where your baby&rsquo;s chin is. If the position is all set, lightly compress your breast so that your nipple points toward your baby&rsquo;s nose.&nbsp;👩&zwj;🍼Crossover holdDecide which breast you&rsquo;ll be nursing from and hold the baby&rsquo;s head with your hand on the opposite side of the nursing breast. To make the holding easier, put your wrist between the baby&rsquo;s shoulder and your thumb behind one ear👂, the other fingers behind the other ear. With your free hand, cup your breast and gently put it towards your baby&rsquo;s mouth.👩&zwj;🍼Football holdIf you have had a C-section, have large breasts, or your baby is small or premature, a football hold will be an option for you. Position your baby facing you, and tuck his/her legs under your arm on the same side of the breast you are nursing from. (Like you are holding a football!🏈) Support the baby&rsquo;s head with the same hand. Use the other hand to cup your breast.👩&zwj;🍼Laid-back positionLaid-back position is helpful, particularly for moms with smaller breasts, and newborns with sensitive tummies👶. As the name of the position suggests, you should lean back on a couch and put your baby on your body, facing tummy to tummy. Put his/her head near your breast so the baby can reach your breast naturally. If the baby finds it hard, you can lead him/her by directing the nipple toward the mouth.👩&zwj;🍼Side-lying positionFor night feeders😴, a side-lying position is a good choice because you and your baby both have to lie down on a bed. Put your baby on your side, tummy to tummy, and hold them with the hand on the side you&rsquo;re lying on. Use the other hand to cup your breast and feed the baby. This position could suffocate the baby, so you should never do this position on a recliner, couch, or water bed!<hr>Breastfeeding positions to avoid<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3915/29d0795c-ea72-4372-a61b-aa6e97d5a228.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">If you nurse your baby in an improper position, your breasts might not be able to produce enough milk! The most common mistake new moms make is to hunch over their bodies to the baby. Keeping your back straight and bringing your baby up to your breast is the key to breast stimulation✨.&nbsp;For your and your baby&rsquo;s safety and comfort, always make sure the baby&rsquo;s body isn&rsquo;t too far from the breasts. (The baby can pull on your nipple while feeding! ouch!😵) Also, put the baby&rsquo;s body and head facing the same direction so he/she can swallow the breast milk without trouble.

Breastfeeding Positions

When you pick up your baby from the crib🛏️, you might have noticed their hands and legs got stiffened! This is normal! It usually happens when your little one gets too excited or frustrated👶, and her muscle gets tightened up. However, rarely there are some other cases that can indicate a problem!<hr>What is hypertonia?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/froala/boards/4052/53cc0942-1774-4805-8957-80861c8686e7.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">It is considered hypertonia when a baby&rsquo;s muscles get stiff and hard to move because of damage to the brain or spinal cord that controls muscle movements🧍. Babies with hypertonia move in different ways because their range of motion is limited. Walking, balancing, grabbing, and letting go of objects could be difficult for them.There are two types of hypertonia, which are Spastic and Dystonic. Spastic hypertonia is when muscle spasms when a baby moves. On the other hand, when a baby is with Dystonic hypertonia, their muscle tone stays the same whether the baby is moving or still. In order to figure out which hypertonia the baby has, doctors will move a baby&rsquo;s muscles in different directions at various speeds🚶.<hr>Why does it happen? Any symptoms I should be aware of?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/froala/boards/4052/41b14a84-bfe7-4947-a7c1-597845f03d49.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">To move muscles, we send signals from the nervous system travel to the nerves. However, if the brain🧠 or spinal cord is injured, those signals can&rsquo;t reach the nerves, which causes hypertonia! This could happen when a baby had a lack of oxygen during birth. If his/her brain is injured or has a tumor, could cause hypertonia as well.A baby with hypertonia generally shows trouble moving her joints in the arms, legs or neck. Their range of motion👋 gets limited, and they fall often because they lose their balance.&nbsp;If a baby has severe hypertonia, he can&rsquo;t move the affected body part much because his joint freeze in place, which is called a contracture.&nbsp;<hr>Other reasons why your baby may stiffen their body<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/froala/boards/4052/7d8fdc92-0864-4c5a-95cf-158ff6529527.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">There are a few other possible medical reasons🏥 for a baby to stiffen their body. Other medical conditions related to brain damage, such as infantile spasms, cerebral palsy, seizures, and epilepsy can cause this symptom as well.&nbsp;Occasional muscle stiffening isn&rsquo;t something to worry about. But if you feel suspicious too often, you should contact a doctor for a check-up and start a diagnosis and treatment👩&zwj;⚕️.

Why does my baby stiffen their legs and arms?

Every child grows at their own pace💗, but growth charts can give us a general idea. Remember, &quot;average&quot; doesn&#39;t define normal, as babies come in all shapes and sizes.<hr>What&#39;s the average weight for a newborn?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/4025/60137961-29a8-4e53-9440-627f0cbb246f.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">According to the World Health Organization (WHO), a full-term baby boy usually weighs around 7 pounds and 6 ounces, which is about 3.3 kilograms. And for our lovely baby girls, the average weight is around 7 pounds and 2 ounces, or 3.2 kilograms. How cute is that🐥?Now, babies born between 37 and 40 weeks👶, their weights can vary a bit more. On average, they weigh anywhere from 5 pounds and 8 ounces to 8 pounds and 13 ounces, which is about 2.5 to 4 kilograms. Isn&#39;t it amazing how these little ones come in different sizes right from the start?<hr>Why does newborn weight gain matter?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/4025/fc9a428a-4a00-411f-b182-8d659a0076c5.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">When it comes to your little one&#39;s weight and height, consistent growth is a positive sign of their well-being. But sometimes, babies may not be gaining weight as they should, and that&#39;s when the term &quot;failure to gain weight&quot; or &quot;failure to thrive&quot; comes into play🥲.&nbsp;There can be various reasons behind this, such as difficulties with feeding, problems with absorbing or using nutrients, or even certain medical conditions. It&#39;s essential to work closely with healthcare providers to identify the root cause and address it properly💕.<hr>How can I tell if my newborn is gaining enough weight?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/4025/3823a52e-e5b0-4d46-92c3-ab49b87ab626.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">Believe it or not, counting those oh-so-important diapers can give you a good indication that your little one is doing just fine😀! During the first few days, it&#39;s completely normal for your newborn to have only a few wet diapers a day. After that, you can expect to see about 6 to 8 wet diapers in a 24-hour period. It&#39;s a great sign that your baby is getting enough fluids.Let&#39;s get down to business with poopy diapers. It&#39;s typical for babies to poop at least twice a day but when you&#39;re breastfeeding🤱, your baby might have even more poopy diapers, like five or more, while formula-fed babies may have a few less.&nbsp;

Newborn weight gain - what's healthy and what's not

How much should my baby eat? Is she eating too much or too little?🤔 Just knowing how much your baby should be eating will be a great companion for your parenting life👀!&nbsp;<hr>How much should my baby eat?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3970/acacfd73-a8cd-461e-bfce-7147c32e15af.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">🍼 BreastfeedingIf you are breastfeeding, your baby will decide how much she&rsquo;ll eat. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, breastfed babies should eat as often and as long as they want! So let your baby guide you🧑&zwj;🏫. Don&rsquo;t rely on the clock; offer your breasts whenever your little one wants! Usually feeding for newborns occurs every 2 to 3 hours, which adds up to around 8 to 12 feedings a day.🍼 Formula-feedingHow much formula-fed baby eats differs for each one of them! It depends on his weight, age, and appetite, and it can vary from one day to the next🐻.Normally, babies eat 1 to 3 ounces of formula every three to four hours during the first few weeks after birth. It increases to at least 4 ounces every four hours by the first month. By 6 months, 24 to 32 ounces over 4 or 5 feedings a day would be enough!<hr>How do I know if I&rsquo;m feeding too little?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3970/4a7e63e4-5ba5-4028-ab37-1bcdf7990a0f.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">If you feed your baby too little, you&rsquo;ll notice right away because he&rsquo;ll immediately let you know by showing his emotions🥹. He&rsquo;ll cry, fuss, or suck his fingers to express his discomfort!Also, you&rsquo;ll notice your baby gains little or no weight. On average, a newborn gains 4 to 7 ounces per week. Try feeding them a little more, and talk to your pediatrician to check if your baby&rsquo;s growth is on track🏃.Another sign you should be aware of is how many diapers your baby makes. Infants usually have at least 6 wet diapers and 4-5 poop diapers a day. Count the number of diapers you get every day. If they make fewer diapers than this number, you might want to feed them a little more.&nbsp;<hr>How do I know if I&rsquo;m feeding too much?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3970/fef0668d-898a-4ce8-987f-270268005fb4.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">Babies know when to stop😉. In general, they eat when they are hungry, and stop when they are full. But don&rsquo;t let your guard down yet, it is still possible for babies to eat too much. Bottle-fed babies tend to do so because drinking from a bottle is easier than drinking from the breast. Overeating can cause stomach pain, gas, or even vomiting after nursing. It can also raise the risk of obesity later in life. But you don&rsquo;t need to worry too much, mommy! Your baby knows how much she needs, and you&rsquo;ll figure out your baby&rsquo;s capability soon. So take it slow, and follow your baby&rsquo;s lead🐥!

How much should my baby eat?

Oops did your baby just fall off a chair? Let&rsquo;s go check them out if there is any serious injury!<hr>What should you do when your baby just falls off?<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3231/7244cf82-aeb8-4270-9764-7f8d3be60573.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👶The baby looks okay to youThe moment your baby falls off gives you an adrenaline rush.🏃&zwj;♀️ You run as fast as you can to your baby to make sure that your child doesn&rsquo;t have any serious wounds.If the baby looks okay, probably the fall doesn&rsquo;t cause serious injury or break some bones.🦴 You still need to continue observing your baby for the next 24 hours to see if any symptoms develop.&nbsp;👶The baby feels uncomfortableIf your baby is crying out loud, probably they must have gotten hurt or they are irritable because of the fall.😭 The best decision is to take them to the doctor to get checked out thoroughly.&nbsp;It&rsquo;s not necessary to keep the child awake although it&rsquo;s better to monitor their health when they are still active.🤾&zwj;♀️ What is dangerous is that they probably fall on their head, feel dizzy and want to sleep but can&#39;t easily wake up. If they sleep, you should wake them after two hours to see if the child is still alert.💤<hr>Stay calm to identify serious signs<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3231/496588b0-fcb3-451f-8b00-44f29e38c6d6.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👶Simple signsYou can&rsquo;t help feeling anxious when you see your child crying nonstop.😭 If the baby just has a light bump, their tears come from pain or fright and will not last longer than 10 minutes.&nbsp;👶Serious signsConstant headache or dizziness can be the result of a serious hit.🤕 Your baby might be extremely irritable and cry incessantly. More severely, you may see them excessively sleepy and have a difficult time waking up. The baby might vomit after a strong hit on their head.🤮<hr>Treatment for your baby<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3231/644751a4-aa6b-4700-a75a-cae4e3fa85f4.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👶Treatment at homeIf you have successfully ruled out serious injury, you can treat your baby&rsquo;s mild bump at home. Wrap an ice pack🧊 in a thin towel or diaper and hold it onto the bump for fifteen or twenty minutes. You can nurse them or say something sweet to your little one to soothe them and distract them from the pain.😀If your baby is constantly in pain, you can give them the appropriate amount of acetaminophen or ibuprofen.💊 Avoid aspirin because it can cause a rare but serious condition called Reye&rsquo;s syndrome.👶Call the ER!If your child experiences loss of consciousness, unresponsiveness, non stop bleeding, you have to call for an emergency.🚑 Any signs of a fractured bone, a concussion, inability to walk steadily or talk, prolonged screaming indicate your baby can be in danger. You have to talk to their doctor immediately and take the baby to the emergency room.👩&zwj;⚕️

What if your baby falls?

That nervous feeling when you&rsquo;re about to meet your baby for the first time is engraved in your heart.💓 You just look at them in awe every time and gain strength to become the best parents for them. But you can&rsquo;t avoid stress along the way&hellip;<hr>Parenting stress<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3234/f35db480-c86e-4079-b434-9cf543dd0373.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👪What is parenting stress?Parenting stress is the distress when you feel you can&rsquo;t cope as a parent.😞 After pregnancy, expectations and demands placed on you are so high that you seem to run out of resources and strength to meet them.&nbsp;👪What causes parenting stress?The causation varies depending on each family. Stress can originate from poor economic status, inadequate support system, and exposure to hostility.⚔️ Anything that makes you worry about your ability to protect your child and thrive can contribute to parenting stress.🙁<hr>Ways to cope with parenting stress<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3234/96a703ed-89e8-4ef2-8774-ac4322d93a12.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👪Reach out for supportParenting is a lot easier if you have your supporters on your side.👪 Contact your friends, family members and especially your partner to share your feelings. You can always count on their support for emotional support, financial aid💰 and childcare help.If you don&rsquo;t live near friends or relatives, you can look for local parenting cooperatives, online communities and trained therapis&zwj;ts.😀 Enrolling in parenting classes can be helpful too as you can seek new friends, reduce your feelings of guilt and stress while gaining more knowledge.👪Avoid unnecessary exposure to signals that drag you downAfter a very brief exposure to negative emotional content, it&rsquo;s natural that you pay attention more to upsetting images, replay bad memories and worry about the future. Such thoughts keep circulating in your head, causing more anxiety and gloom.😥Overdosing on bad news spikes up your stress levels, undermines yourself and hurts you gradually. Instead, try to put yourself together, think constructively, think brightly.🤔 Everything will be just fine and you can do it!&nbsp;👪Focus on the goodYou can induce good moods by downloading happy memories into your head. Do you remember when your little one just took the first step or called your name for the first time? When you return home from work, remember how you feel when you see your child&rsquo;s smiles and hugs.🤗Reflect on good memories and read jokes, uplifting stories to make you feel better. Focusing on acts of kindness and positive messages will help you decrease stress responses.😀👪Re-appraise the situationWe often think that we are good at predicting things if we have a plan. Actually, we are pretty bad at anticipating future discomforts. Sometimes, stressful things just occur along the way.😞When bad things happen, you may find a coping strategy when you reconsider the situation from a new angle. Stop dwelling too much on your personal emotional reactions, try to view the problem with more objectivity.💪&nbsp;

Parenting stress

The definition of positive parenting varies but the core idea can be summed up to warm, positive family interactions and guidelines!<hr>Tips for positive parenting<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3240/8be28f30-2fdb-4c5a-a038-10251ea0017d.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👪Get inside your child&rsquo;s headAlthough on the outside your child&rsquo;s behaviors look unjustified and irrational, they are motivated by legitimate needs.🧸 If you can get inside their heads, you can address their needs. Always keep in mind that they are still developing and give them the benefit of the doubt.😎👪Empathetic, supportive and constructiveYou don&rsquo;t have to agree with your child&rsquo;s demands all the time. Instead, the goal is to be the kind of arbitrator and mentor you would want for yourself and your baby.😀Your kid would love a parent who is prepared to listen to their side of the story and reassure them that they are being heard.💖 They know that they will get a fair-minded and sympathetic hearing. You are the one who will reason with them, use encouragement and humor to steer them away from negative emotions while introducing solutions.🥰👪The art of distractionIf you notice that your baby has gotten hold of a forbidden object, you just camly remove it and show your child something else. Look at these colorful toys!🪅 Your child might be attracted to them immediately when you find them more interesting. &nbsp;Distraction is useful for old kids too. When your child is overwhelmed by feelings of outrage and confinement, they don&rsquo;t know how to stop but they can divert their focus into something else.👀👪Humor and playfulnessJokes and silliness are considered excellent distractions.😚 Your kid might feel more excited and motivated if you make requests with humor and transform work into play.👪Make sure that most of your interactions are positiveKids are mirrors, reflecting images of what happens around them.🪞 Positive social interactions create more trusting family relationships and motivate kids to be cooperative.<hr>More tips for positive parenting<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3240/af053bd6-49a1-4509-a0ee-1b19a381bf54.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👪Validate your kid&rsquo;s reasonsIt&rsquo;s important that you don&rsquo;t expect your kids to read your mind.😊 Two-way conversations are much more beneficial when you don&rsquo;t just recite the rules but rather to explain the rationale of the rules and undertake your baby&rsquo;s questions and concerns.👪Try to say yes as much as possible&ldquo;No&rdquo; can be viewed as a negative word that fuels resentment and resistance since your kid is not yet able to understand how to learn from negative feedback. Parental criticism can also trigger feelings of hopelessness.😞 Hence, you should either suggest alternatives and help the kid accept different options.&nbsp;👪Catch children at being goodIt&rsquo;s crucial that you give praise at the right moment.😘 Children may respond to rewards and compliments more readily than punishments. After your kid finishes homework, let&rsquo;s offer simple praise &ldquo;well done!&rdquo; for the kid&rsquo;s good behavior.👪Be a good mentorTalking with your child about their feelings and discussing helpful strategies for handling difficult emotions indicate your respect for your kid and your willingness to offer sympathetic hearing.👂 You also provide your little one with concrete support and assurance that no matter what, mommy is right here!&nbsp;

Tips for Positive Parenting

Parenting isn&rsquo;t one-size-fit-alls. You might feel a lot of pressure to pick one style of parenting, in reality, the act of parenting is a true journey, not a set of required practices. You&rsquo;re welcome to take your time to figure it out.😀<hr>Attachment parenting<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3236/06210511-ece5-44c5-ae2b-f2760ad42f0c.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👪Definition of attachment parenting?Attachment parenting is not all about a frenetic attempt to deliver the fastest responses when your baby sends a signal. It&rsquo;s actually about finding a balance between parents&rsquo; lives and childcare duties.⚖️The ancestral implication that mothers are designed to devote themselves to child-rearing to the point that they can&rsquo;t have a private life is out-dated.⚠️ Something is wrong if you and your baby cannot enjoy the parenting journey. What it truly means is attending to your child&rsquo;s cues and taking action accordingly that suits both you and your baby.🥰👪Common practices of attachment parentingIf you choose attachment parenting, you may find yourself frequently holding your baby, breastfeeding🤱 whenever your little one cries even in the middle of the night.🌙 You become sensitive and responsive to your child&rsquo;s emotions. You decide to co-sleep with your baby to monitor them better.<hr>Benefits of attachment parenting<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3236/d5c89260-f950-4fef-b450-c0319fec5b86.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👪Secure bondsUnlike unresponsive and more controlling parents, sensitive mothers tend to pay attention more to the child&rsquo;s interests and needs.👂 The quality of communication between you and your child indicates more secure attachment relationships.👪Promote independenceInfants are less likely to develop fearful tendencies if they know that you are always there by their side.👩&zwj;👦 They show a greater level of positive mood, more constructive coping and better regulation of emotion on their own.&nbsp;👪Help children cope with stressSkin-to-skin contacts and co-sleeping can help your baby develop a healthy stress response system, improved sleep patterns and better cognitive control.🧠 Once the kid receives warm and sensitive parenting, they are protected from brain-shrinking stress and autoimmune disorders.👪Fewer behavior problemsSecurely - attached children are less likely to develop behavior problems since they develop better cognitive flexibility and perspective taking-skills.🤗 Moreover, if they are engaged in mutually responsive, positive reactions with you, it is more likely that they develop consciences and comply with adult instructions.😛

Attachment parenting

Whenever your baby feels sad or angry, do you try to empathize with their emotion or just ignore and move on? Emotionally supportive relationships can be beneficial more than you think.😎<hr>Emotion coaching<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3239/aeed4dab-1fdf-4c16-b65f-d6f77fdb76ee.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👪What is emotion coaching?Based on the principle that emotionally supportive relationships provide the best context for children to grow up, emotion coaching is the practice of helping your baby learn to self-regulate negative emotions when you tune in your child&rsquo;s feelings and show empathy.🤗 Because the kid is not capable of handling difficult emotions and having rich life experiences like adults, you are the ultimate guide who needs to accept and validate their feelings, helps them label emotions with words and instructs them to overcome hardships.🤱👪Why kids need you to emphasize?Young children lack our life experiences and are incompetent at reading others&rsquo; feelings and intentions. Your kid needs you to guide them to learn and practice.👩&zwj;🏫Some kids have a tougher time than others at mood management. The key is you can provide help and teach them to handle those emotional storms.😀<hr>Ways that emotion coaching works<img src="https://cdn.billyapi.com/posts/3239/0d81a628-7de5-4ac6-a284-aa790aa501e1.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">👪Notice signs before your child&rsquo;s emotions get intenseIs your kid looking a bit frustrated?😤 Although your initial reaction might be to ignore it and regard negative emotions as offensive, this is actually the golden opportunity for you to better understand your child and help them cope with it.💪Talk to your child how they look different now and ask the reason why they behave so.️ If you suspect a trigger, gently bring it up so that the child feels like they are being heard.😀👪Listen, validate and show empathyYou need to stay calm even though your child is furious in front of you.😌 What you really need to do is to relate to your kid&rsquo;s experiences by drawing parallels in your own life.Imagine when you are upset at your coworkers when something goes wrong at your work. That is also your child&rsquo;s feelings when they are rejected or humiliated at school.🏫 You can relate to the situation and understand why your kid feels that way.😇👪Find verbal labels for emotionsAs you listen and empathize with your kids, you can help them identify what exactly their feelings are.😍 Learning how to verbalize emotions teaches them to shift into a more detached and analytical point of view and view emotions as a normal reaction to a triggering situation.&nbsp;The method isn&rsquo;t merely telling your baby how they should feel. But rather to ask questions, align with our own experiences and help them understand their own emotions better.🤗👪Allow your child to take time to calm downPowerful emotions, such as anger, anxiety trigger a fight or flight response. They block the ability to reason and control impulses, making us vulnerable to overreacting.🛡️The same thing happens to your child. If your baby is highly distressed about an uncomfortable situation, let them take a pause and allow the stress response to wind down.😮&zwj;💨 Don&rsquo;t be tempted to start problem-solving and expect them to reason with you when they are not ready.

Emotion Coaching

Congratulations! Finally you&rsquo;re sailing along on your pregnancy adventure. Are you feeling any seasickness along the way? That&rsquo;s probably because you are experiencing morning sickness which definitely does not occur in just mornings.&nbsp;<hr>Morning sickness<img src="https://s3.ap-northeast-2.amazonaws.com/images.villagebaby.kr/posts/1858/dd1a7444-681b-4186-a64d-0d8e5b392c6c.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">🤢What is morning sickness?It describes the nausea and vomiting that happen when you are pregnant.🤰 Depending on how sensitive you are to smells and odors, you may have strong aversions to certain smells or foods that are so powerful that you feel sick to your stomach.👃Morning sickness does not necessarily mean it only happens in the morning. In fact, you can suffer the symptoms any time of the day or night.☀️🌃🤢When does morning sickness start?It typically starts around week 6 until the middle of month 2. It is truly the first sign you&rsquo;ll notice after your hCG hormone levels overcome the threshold to produce a positive pregnancy test result.🤰 &nbsp;🤢How long does morning sickness last? &nbsp;Nausea and vomiting diminish between weeks 12 and 16, but they are at their peaks form weeks 10 to 16. It is possible that you continue experiencing these symptoms when you enter the second trimester or even throughout pregnancy.🤮&nbsp;<hr>Morning sickness causes<img src="https://s3.ap-northeast-2.amazonaws.com/images.villagebaby.kr/posts/1858/0e8ff7b3-629a-4145-8773-6b3e28ffd19a.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">🤢Hormone levelshCG hormone level is at its peak when morning sickness is worst. Increased levels of estrogen and progesterone relax the muscles of the digestive tract and make it difficult for you to digest food.📈🤢A sensitive brainIf you are already hypersensitive to car sick🚗 or seasick🌊 compared to others, you are subjected to morning sickness. A family history of migraine also makes you prone to morning sickness.&nbsp;🤢StressEmotional stress such as anger😠, depression😫 can upset the gastrointestinal tract. No wonder when you&rsquo;re under stress, you experience morning sickness more often.🤢FatigueIf you have morning sickness, fatigue can make the nausea worse. On the other hand, morning sickness can increase fatigue.🥴🤢First time pregnancyIf this is the first time you&rsquo;re pregnant, the symptoms might appear more severely and decrease when you&rsquo;re pregnant again.🙋 Your body is less prepared for the sudden surge of hormone levels, making you feel more anxious and resulting in stomach upset. &nbsp;<hr>Morning sickness remedies<img src="https://s3.ap-northeast-2.amazonaws.com/images.villagebaby.kr/posts/1858/c63b9fac-479a-4aea-a893-103e09f050d5.gif" class="fr-fic fr-dib" style="width: 100%; height: 100%;">🤢Stay away from offensive smellsBecause your sense of smells is so keen, some scents may be offensive and sickening despite them being familiar. Stay away from smells that make you feel nauseous. Open windows so the air inside your room can be well ventilated.🍲🤢Wear Sea-Band wristlets &nbsp;They are clinically proven to be effective to protect you from severe morning sickness. These 1-inch-wide bands are anti nausea acupressure wristbands that put pressure on an acupressure point and naturally relieve the symptoms.😃🤢Rest wellMeditation, visualization or any methods that help you stay calm can help minimize queasiness. Relax your body and take it easy since rushing only makes your pregnancy experiences worse.😶&zwj;🌫️😌&nbsp;

Morning sickness and nausea during pregnancy

Why should I take the test?💡&nbsp;Rubella is a contagious disease that spreads through droplets in the air when people cough or sneeze. It typically begins with rash, swollen glands and fever. Although rubella has been eradicated due to widespread vaccination with measles-mumps-rubella (MMR) vaccine, if you&rsquo;re unvaccinated, you are prone to be infected.If you catch the virus during pregnancy, you can transfer the virus to your baby through the bloodstream. If you catch rubella within the first 11 weeks of pregnancy, the baby is likely to have congenital rubella syndrome. If you are infected after week 16, the baby is considered safe from the virus. &nbsp;Unfortunately, no treatment is available to prevent the baby from catching rubella if you&rsquo;re infected. Vaccination can only provide protection before you&rsquo;re infected, but once the virus is present in your bloodstream, it is too late to be vaccinated.&nbsp;How is the test done?💉&nbsp;The rubella antibody screening determines prior protection and assesses immunity to rubella virus. Testing requires a sample of blood, urine, or a nasal or throat swab.During a blood draw test, a needle is injected into a vein in your arm while an elastic band is placed around the upper part of your arm to increase blood flow. The area where the needle is inserted is cleaned with antiseptic. Then, a test tube or vial attached to the needle is there to collect the blood. &nbsp;During a rubella test that requires a nose or throat swab, a cotton swab is inserted into nostrils or the throat to collect samples. You may experience some discomfort or watery eyes during the procedure. Then they are stored in a tube for analysis.&nbsp;During a rubella test that asks you for a urine sample, you will need to provide a sample in a cup for analysis.&nbsp;<hr>TMI from Baby Billy👩&zwj;⚕️:&nbsp;A rubella antibody screening checks for the level of antibodies to see if you have been vaccinated. There are several types of rubella antibody tests.&nbsp;Immunoglobulin M antibody test:&nbsp;IgM develops as soon as 4 days after the symptoms start to kick in when you are first infected with rubella virus. IgM is detectable for six to eight weeks or longer after infection.Immunoglobulin G antibody test: IgG can be considered as a memory antibody which distinguishes between recent infections and immunity due to past infections and enhances the release of IgM antibody attacking the virus faster. IgG testing is also an accurate method to understand how well your body can fight against rubella.&nbsp;Nucleic acid amplification testing (NAAT): uses reverse transcription polymerase chain reaction (RT-PCR) method to identify genetic material of rubella virus present in a nasal swab, throat swab or a urine sample. The test is highly sensitive, can be done in a short period of time and requires minimal template for detection and amplification of a specific sequence. It detects and amplifies the DNA and RNA sequences of the virus despite the small quantity of the virus. &nbsp;

Rubella antibody screening

신지O

첫째 이름이 신지환이라 신지o 돌림으로하고싶어서..

여자아이인데 이쁜이름 추천부탁드립니다🤍

이름추천좀해주세요~ 신씨 

지유 지오 지나 지온.. 지 돌림은 이쁜이름 너무 많네요😍

신지윤 
신지민 
신지유 
신지우
신지안

신지희 신지온 신지엘 신지율
신지노 신지빈 신지담 신지수

지아 지윤 지예 지율 지영 지연 지수 지나 지유 지우 지온 지은 지솔 지빈이용!

이제 6주차인데 임신초기에 장거리 차타는거 안좋다고해서 고민되네요. 아버님, 어머님 따로사셔서 각각 편도2시간 거리를 가야해서요.
임신해도 차로 출퇴근하시는 분들도 많은것 같은데 너무 예민하게 구는건가 싶기도하고 그렇네요.

임신초기 설날 시댁,친정 가시나요?

저는 이동 거리는 가까운데 총 몇 십명의 대가족이라 독감같은 유행병때문에 안 가려고 생각중입니다 ... 🥲

저도 설날이 8주차라 조심하려고 안내려갑니다🥲 집콕할거에요

저두 6주차인데 안 갑니당ㅎㅎ 어머님께서 당연히 오는 걸로 알고 계셔서 마음이 좀 그랫는데 안 간다고 햇어요

저희 아가는 88일차인데 모로반사가 심한편인거 같아요. 특히 낮잠이 얕게 자서 더 심한거 같긴 한데 발달을 위해 스와들은 안입히고 지내고 있구요, 
밤잠은 스와들업을 입고 옆잠베개에 누워 자는데
좀 크니까 스와들업이 딱 맞더라구요.
그래서 언제까지 스와들업을 입혀야하나 싶은데
스와들입고 옆잠베개 아래에 한팔 넣고 자는데 아기들도 팔이 저리거나 하나요?ㅜㅜ
제가 보기엔 나비잠 자세로 옆으로 누워 오래 자면 불편할수도 있겠다는 생각이 드네여..
스와들을 졸업시켜야할까요?😱

옆잠베개, 스와들업 

저희아기는 지금 76일인데 일찌감치 졸업시켰어요! 한 1달지나서? 모로반사도 심하긴했는데 압박하는걸싫어하더라구요 그래서 더 잠을자주깼구요😭 지금은 옆잠베개로만 자는데 빼주셔도 될것같아요! 저라면 한번 빼서 재워보구 잘 못자거나 놀래서 울면 다시 입혀서재울것같아용!!ㅎ

97일차 아기 저두 아직 스와들업 졸업 못했어요ㅠㅠ스와들업입고 통잠 10시간씩 자주는데 빼면 많이 안자구 깰까봐....6개월까지 조금씩 횟수가 줄어들고 6개월이후에는 없어진다하니 우리 조금만 더 힘내봐여!

스와들입고 옆잠말고 하나만 해주시는건 어떠세요? 저는 저녁엔 스와들입혀서 통잠자고있고 낮잠은 옆잠배게에서 한번자고 스와들,옆잠 둘다없이 한번자고 이런식으로 연습하고있어요~
아직까지 밤잠은 스와들없으면 안되겠더라구요~
그리고 아가가 자면서 움직이고하는데 옆잠은 불편할것같아서 밤잠엔 사용안하고있어요!

85일 저희 애기도 모로반사가 심해서 밤잠은 속싸개나 스와들하고 옆잠베개에서  재우는데 스와들할때는 천장보는 자세로 옆잠베개 풀어서 머리 낮게해서 눕히고 속싸개하면 옆으로 해서 재워요. 아기가 속싸개하면 팔을 하나씩 가끔 빼는데 빼면 또 모로반사로 울어요..! 아주 가끔 살짝만 깼다 잠들었다를 반복하고요ㅎㅎ 요즘 낮잠은 옆잠베개를 껴안고 자도록(손 한쪽 아래로 넣어서) 하는데 모로반사없이 잘 자더라고요. 곧 싸개들 졸업하면 좋겠어요. 

저희애기는 모로반사보다
용쓰면서 두피랑 얼굴을 긁어대서 ㅜ 잘때만 속싸개해주고 재웠는데
힘이 점점 쎄져서 팔이빠져가지고 뭐 좋은아이템없나 찾다가 마미품 발견해서 아주 잘 쓰고있어요!!
정자세로 원래 잘자던 아이라 누워서 팔쪽만 잡아주니까 좋더라구요 ㅎㅎ

손이 좀 올라오긴하는데 손싸개해주고 하니까 딱이에요

몸에 묶는거 있어요~ 
머미쿨쿨이랑 스와들업보다 훨씬 강해요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
몸에 묶는거 직방입니다!

다른거 다해봤는데 팔 완전히 묵는게 짱이예요.. 저희애기 50일 이후부터 통잠자요~~
한번해보세요^^

저기 중간에 눕혀놓고 좀 바짝 땡겨가면서 팔을 묶어야해요
손가락만 나올정도로요
헐렁하게 묵어서 빠지는거예요

엇 스와들업 졸업해야하나요? 낮잠은 아직 스와들업입히고 있는데ㅜㅜ

어린이집 생일선물준비하려고하는데
1년 총8명이고 멀선물하면좋을까요?
가격대는 보통 얼마정도하나요?
종류가 많아서 모르겠네요

가격대 정해주시진않았어요...!ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

어린이집 생일선물

선물 가격이 어느정도 정해져 있더라구요~ 어린이집에 한 번 물어보세요~^^ 선물은 진짜 다양하던데.. 칫솔, 양말, 머리핀, 색칠공부, 색연필 등.. 3000원~5000원 정도 선물을 많이 하시더라구요ㅎㅎ

저희는 3천원 이라고 정해주셨는데 다이소 기준으로 생각하시면 될것같아요(5천원)
선생님이 같으면 다이소+머리핀 해줬어요(여긴 남아가 2명뿐이라)

보통 5천원 선으로 한더라구요~
저는 양말로 쭉 통일이요ㅎㅎ

소근육템으로 가위선물하는 것도 본적있어용ㅎㅎ!! 

출산휴가 90일만 쓸껀데 애기낳고 최대한 뒤로 붙여쓰려하니 몸에 무리가 가네요 

 37주5일인 오늘까지 출근하고 드디어 내일부터 쉽니다~~ 
하지만 어제 검사에서 단백뇨가 나왔네요..
출산까지 임신중독증 증상 나타날까 걱정입니다.  출산일까지 무사히 40주 채우고 애기 나오길 기도해봐요🙏🏻

37주까지 출근한 맘님 계시나요

37주까지 일하시다니 정말 대단하시네용 ㅜㅜ 안힘드세요? ㅜㅜ 전 34주 바라보고있는데 이번달까지만하구 좀 쉬려구합니당

35주까지 일하기로 했었는데 34주에 조기진통으로 입원하는 바람에 급하게 휴직계 냈어요 ㅜ 확실히 배도 더 나오고 몸도 무겁고 그런데 일까지 하려니 몸에 무리가 많이 가나봐요 ㅠㅇㅠ

36주까지 일했어요ㅠ 마지막쯔음엔 진짜 너무 힘들었는데ㅠ 무리하지마세요ㅠ 

저지금 36주인데
저두38주5일 까지일해요ㅋ
단백뇨 하나 나와서
저두 이주뒤에 소변검사 한번 더 해욤ㅋ

저 37주 3일까지 일해요!
원래 38주 3일 욕심내다 인사도 못하고 출산하러 갈까바 ㅋㅋ 일주일 줄였어요..

다음주에 인수인계하고 36주 꽉꽉 채워 출휴가요!!! 37주차부터 쉬는데… 일찍 나올까봐 불안해요ㅋㅋㅋ 인간적으로 한달은 푹 쉬고싶은맴ㅠㅠㅠ

전 36주까지 일하는거였는데 자궁경부 짧아져서 일찍 병가로 쉬어요! 몸에 무리 없으셨다니 다행이네요 ㅎㅎ

육아휴직 안 쓰시는거세요?ㅠㅠ

헐 대단하세요 저도 마음은 막주까지 일하고 최대한 늦게 나오는거였는데 34주 넘어가면서부터 몸이 너무 힘들어서 36주에 들어가기로 했어요 다음주 금요일인데 진짜 하루가 다르게 힘드네요;; 너무 고생하셨어요 워킹맘 화이팅 ! ㅜ 

출산 전날까지 일해요 ㅠㅠ ㅎㅎ 제 친구는 중환자실 간호사인데 전날까지 일했대요 ㅎㅎㅎㅎㅎ

저희신랑동료는 오늘까지 일하고 내일 애낳으러갔데요; 운전해서 출장가다가 진통와서 병원으로 턴했다고...대단하더라구요

저도 37주1일까지 일하고 쉽니당 생각보다 일하는게 컨디션이 좋긴한데 대중교통 출퇴근이 너무힘들더라고요 출산까지 화이팅해요!!

37주 4일까지 근무하고 출산휴가 들어가요!! 확실히 하루하루 몸이 힘들어지는거 같긴해요

대단하세요…ㅠㅠㅠ 
저는 36주에 급 양수터져서 빨리 낳았어요!
무리하지마세요😭

저는 31주까지 다니고 32주부터 연차소진하고 출산휴가 들어갓어요 ㅎ 좀 더 일 해도 되었을것같긴한데..그래도 빨래니 뭐니 미리 해놔서 좋네요 마음도 몸도 편하구요

직업이 교사고 학기마무리해줘야되서 36주까지일해요ㅎㅅㅎ

저도 38주까지 일 해요 2주 남았는데 잘 버텨보려구요 근데 출퇴근시 임산부석에 앉아서 제 배를 보고도 안비켜주는 아줌마 아저씨가 너무 미워요 한대 때리고 싶어져요

37주 6일까지 일하는데 이제 정말 출근해 가만히 앉아있는 것도 힘드네요ㅠㅠ

よく高温期の白いおりものは着床失敗と聞きますが、、やっぱり駄目なんでしょうか😭？

高温期の白いおりもの

おりものだけでの判断はなんとも言えないので、、おりものはあまり気にしなくても良いと思いますよ😣

絶対ということではないので、あまり考えすぎないようにしてくださいね！！

うーん、おりものだけではなんとも言えないので、ダメだと判断するのは早いかもしれないです🥲🥲

아직 문센을 한번도 안가봤는데
곧 날 따뜻해지면 문센가려고 합니다
문센갈때쯤은 8개월될것같은데
이유식 2번씩 하고있으면 문센갈땐 어떻게하나요???
시간조정하나요? 아님 분유로 한끼 해결하나요???

문센다닐때 이유식

저는 문센 가기전에 11시 40분쯤먹고 (평소보다 조금일찍) 문센 12시 40분꺼랑, 1시꺼 참여해요! 친구는 일찍가서 문센에서 먹이고 문센 참여하더라구요 ㅎㅎ

저는 오전 이유식 11시전후로 하고 보충수유 12시쯤하고 재워요 그럼 30분에서 최대 1시간반 자고 일어나더라구요 
지금 문센 2시반타임 다니고 있어용 문센 갔다오면 집으로 돌아가는 차에서 한숨 주무시고 씻고 이유식 먹이고 보충수유하고 2번때 낮잠 재우는 식으로 하고 있어용 2끼라 그나마 여유 있는거같은데 3끼는,,,걱정이네요ㅠ
아가 낮잠타임 맞춰서 수업시간 정하시는게 좋을거같아요
졸리면 짜증 엄청 심합니다ㅠ 1회짜리 몇번 다녔는데 졸려서 눈비비고 울고 그래서 가나마나 였던적도 있었어요ㅠㅠ

곧 7개월 앞두고 있는데 허공보고 꺄르르 거리고 웃는 거 다른 아가들도 그러나여???
괜히 이런 모습 하나하나에 걱정되는 요즘이네여ㅠㅠ

간혹 허공 보고 웃고 노니까 신랑이랑 저랑 우스갯소리로 귀신이 놀아주나 하면서도 좀 걱정 되긴 해서요ㅜㅜ자폐의 신호일까봐 ㅜ

허공 보고 웃는 아기

저희애기는 졸리거나 심심할때 그러더라구용 ㅎㅎ

저희아기도 졸리거나 심심하고나그럴때 일부러 관심끌려고 허공보고꺄르르한번씩해요 ㅎㅎ  

그냥 기분 좋아서 그런 게 아닐까요? ㅎㅎ저희 애기도 가끔 그래요 

헐 완전 저랑 같은걱정.. 저희애기도 갑자기 다른곳 응시하며 웃는데 혼자서 저기에 귀신있나? 생각하규 설마 자폐신호아니겠지 했었는데ㅠㅠㅠ 비슷한아가가 또 잇군요ㅠㅠ 커가는 과정인가봐요

처음으로 입체초음파찍구 넘 신기하구 좋아서 시댁에 보여드렸는데 
갑자기 전화와선 어디 따른데 보여주고 어디올리고 그러지말라고 그러시는거에요
거기서부터 기분이 좀 나빳는데 남편도 뭐좋은거라고 태어나지도않은 애사진을 왜자랑하냐고 그러고.. 초음파사진은 어디 보여줄생각도없었는데 그러니가 괜히 더 화나더라구요..
그냥 만삭사진찍을때 들고찍는 그정도 하고싶었는데...

이번주에 친구들이 베이비샤워해준다고했는데
그거가지고도 전부터 태어나지도않은아이를 왜축하해주냐고 해주는것도 맘에안드는데 베이비샤워사진같은거 어디올릴생각도하지말라고 그러고... 친구들이 축하해주는건대 왜그러냐고 하니까 혹시나 잘못되면어쩌냐면서..
28주에 잘못될걱정하는게 그게더이상하다고 왜애기가 잘못될생각을 하냐고 하면서 싸우고..

저잠잘때 인스타 없애버리겟다고 막그래서
정말 짜증나서 내 인스타보지말라구하고 남편 인스타 팔로우끊고 차단걸엇어요

남편은 제가이상한거라고 인스타병이라고 하는데 제가이상한거에요? 제가 인스타를 뭐 맨날 올리는 사람이면 이해를하겠는데 인스타 한두달에 한번 좋은맛집이나 여행가거나 할때만 올리는 그런스탈인데..
 이런걸로 이게싸울건가싶고...
다른분들은 베이비샤워 초음파사진 만삭사진 잘만올리고, 심지어 남편이 베이비샤워해주는것도 봤는데 너무너무 속상해요 ㅠㅠ
진짜 연예때부터 지금까지 단한번도 이벤트도 결혼프로포즈도 못받아봣는데 친구들이 한달전부터 베이비샤워 준비해주는걸로 그단거왜하냐고 화내는게 젤 화나네요 ㅠㅠ..

저같은 분 또잇으세요 ㅜㅜ??

초음파사진 가지고 화내는 남편 너무너무속상해요 ㅜ

뭐 좋은거라니.... 애기사진인데 좋은거 당연한거 아닝가요?
저도 시댁에서 촘파사진은 여기저기 보여주지 말고 가족끼리만 보자고 하시던뎅 이유를 모르겟더라구여
근데 저는 블로그 하구 잇어서 그냥 다올려버렷어요 ㅋㅋㅋ남편도 올리라고 뭐 오떠냐고 하든뎅ㅋ
베이비샤워도 친구들이 해준다는데ㅜㅜ왜 싫어하는거죵...이해할수 없네유ㅠㅠ

제남편은  고양이만 챙기고  태교에는 신경도 안써줘여 ㅋㅋ 진짜..그래서  남편이 손갓다 올리면 태동이 잠잠해지고 그러네요..에휴..
어쩔땐 그렇게 고양이가 밉더라구여
고양이 신경써줄시간에  뱃속에 잇는아기한테 말걸어주고 태교라도 해줫음좋겟는데..
문뜩 든 생각이 진짜 우리 남편은 부성애가 없는건지...이런생각도 하고..그랫어요..

진짜 화나네요 ㅠㅠ 요즘 시대엔 자기가 가진걸 예쁘게 보여주는 것도 능력이에요! 내가 파티에 미친여자도 아니고 이벤트,프로포즈도 못받아봤는데 친구들이 시간내서 나와 아길 위해 해준다고 하니까 마음이 너무 감사하고 나는 행복하다. 빵이도 내 기분 다 느끼고 있다. 뭘 해달라고 말하지 않을게 적어도 초치지는 말라 라고 세게 전달하세요! ㅠㅠ

어머나 왜 강제적으로 차단을 시켜요? 애기엄마들 다 애기계정으로 만들어서 크는걸 기록하고 싶어하구 나중에 애기가 자라면 이게 너의 성장과정이란다 보여주고 싶어하고 신기하고 자랑하고 싶고 그런데 왜 그렇게까지 화낼일인지는 모르겟네요 ㅜㅜ

만약에 인스타병이면 뭐????그게 범죄는 아니자나요… 근데 그건 있어요..저희친오빠는 애 태어나고 애사진을 페이스북에 잘안 올리더라구요…
저도 조카사진 올렸는데 자기 아기들이 사진올리는건 아직 아니라도 하더라구요….아직 애들도 어리고 해서 그런지…근데 아직 배속에 있는데….도대체 무엇이 본인한테 맘에 걸려서 그런지 정확히 모르겠네요…위험한 초기~16주까지 다 지나갔는데요…. 베이비샤워 남편분한테 해달란적 없는데 왜…본인이….돈을 달라고 한적도 없는데….올리지도 못하게 하는데 친구들한테 축복도 못받냐거 그래보세요…너무 혼자 오버해서 걱정하는거 아니냐구…..덕분에 애낳고 산후우울증 걸릴거같다거 해보세요.. 네네 알겠어 하다가 내 밥그릇도 못챙기게 되요….특히 남자들은 나이를 먹을수록 이상하게 고집이 쌔지는 경향이..

시댁분들이 옛날분들이신가봐요 남편분도 그렇고..미신같은거 아닐까요 왜 옛날에는 자는아기 사진찍지 말라고 하고 그런거 있었잖아요ㅜ옛날에는 아기들 두세살 될때까지 호적에도 안올리고 했다고 하구요;;;
빵이맘님 시댁이나 남편분한테는 좋은말 계속 못들으실거같으니 맞춰주시고 인스타나 다른 sns는 비공개로 돌리셔서 가족들 모르게 하시는게 갈등을 줄일수 있는 방법일거같아요ㅜ 암쪼록 넘 스트레스 받지 마셔용ㅜ남편분 넘 섭섭하게 행동하신듯요

남편분이 좀 많이 예민하신 것 같아요ㅠ 
저희 남편은 오히려 더 올리고 그러던데... 초기면 조심스러워서 그럴 순 있겠다 쳐도 말을 좀 더 부드럽게 표현하셨으면 더 좋았을 것 같아요ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 속상하시겠어요..!

ㅡㅡ아니 지가 남편이면 남편이지 오ㅐ 이래라저래라죠? 
ㅋㅋㅋ어이가없네 오ㅐ 그걸 지가 판단해서 올리지마라 헛소리..? 엄연히 인스타도 빵이님 개인공간이고 본인 하고싶은데로 올리는건데 오ㅐ 지가 난리; 애 잘못될거 걱정하는거 자체가 저같아도 기분드러울듯  
베이비샤워도 니가 해줄꺼아니면 신경끄라하세요^^*

좋은 생각맘 해도 모자랄 시기에!! 너무 속상해요...혹시 뭐 주위에 임신으로 힘든 분이 가족 중에 있다거나 뭐 어떤 이유를 말해준다면 모를까 그냥 저러기만 하면 화날 것 같은데요! 이것도 다 기념이고 추억인데...

뭔소리 하는거에요 남편분...ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 지금 시기가 얼마나 소중하고 중요한 시기인데 다시 돌아오지도 않는구만.... 생명인데 아직 태어나지않은 애라느니 이런건 아니죠 ㅠㅠㅠ!!!!!

그냥 따로 아기계정 파서 시댁식구랑 남편분 차단하세요ㅠㅠㅠ..
아니 근데 너무 하시네 그걸로 돈버는 것도 아니고 상업적으로 이용하는 것도 아닌데

원래 남편분 성격이 그런신거에요 아님 하지말라는 이유가 있으신거에요....? 초음파 사진 올리는게 무슨 큰 문제라고...친구들이 임신한 친구 위해서 파티해준다는데 그게 화낼일인지 저로썬 도통 이해가 안되네요ㅎㅎ 대화를 잘 해보시고 조율해보세요 전 계정따로 파서 올리는것도 하기 싫네요 제가 잘못한것도 없는데 왜 그래야하는지...😅

생각만해도 속상하셨겠어요 ㅜㅜ 축복해주는 자리인데 증말 남편분 혼나야겠어요!!

저희 엄마도 아가 초음파사진막 올리지말라 그랬는데 아가정보 유출될까봐 걱정이 크신것같더라구요..
그래서 촘파사진올릴때 병원정보 산모정보안보이게 올려서 괜찮다고 말씀드리니까 이해는 하시던데ㅠㅠ

아니 왜 부정타는 소릴한데유...?
제 생각엔 혹시라도 잘못될까바 그러는거 같은데..( 연애할때 친정엄마가 남자친구사진 막 올리지말라고 헤어지면 어쩌냐고 그러는늬앙스...)
태어나지도 않은애는 애도 아닌가요..? 
아빠랑 시댁은 애기가 눈앞에 없으면 
없는존재인가보네요.. 좀 소름이예요
브라이덜 샤워도 본인이 해줄거 아니면 하던지 말던지 뭘 난리ㅡㅡ 친구들이 그만큼 생각해준다는데 고마워해야하는거 아닌지..?

4월초 출산예정인데요~
첫째아기가 출산무렵이면 13개월이라 
남편이 첫째를 봐야해서 보호자로 오지못하게 됐어요 .. 
친정엄마도 사정이있어 오지못하시고 
오롯이 혼자있어야하는데 
혹시 혼자 입원하셨던 산모님 계실까요??
제가 제일 걱정인건 수술후에 처음 앉고 화장실갈때가 남편도움없이 상상이 안되서요 ..
그이후론 보호자없어도 혼자 할수 있을것같거든요;;그리구 같은건물에 조리원까지 있어서 이후론 문제가 안되는데 .. 첫날 정말 힘들고 고통스러웠던 기억이라 가능한가싶은 의문도들고;;
혼자 입원하셨던 산모님계시면 편하게 글남겨주세요!! 

제왕수술입원혼자하셨던분 계신가요?

헐..저랑 상황이똑같네요..연년생이군요.,저도 4월초 제왕출산...첫찌가 그때가 13갤입니다...전 병원에 여쭤보려고는 하는데....ㅠ

저는 첫째 출산으로 입원당시 혼자 했어요 .. ㅎ 다 해요.... ㅎ 간호사선생님이 도와주시기도 하고요 ㅎㅎ

저는 간병인 썼어요!ㅎ
이번에 둘째인데 
둘째도 간병인 쓰려구요ㅎ 
의사쌤께 여쭤보면 
간병회사 번호 알려주세요 : )
친정엄마 힘들게 하는것 같아 
맘도 불편하고 남편도 일해야되구 
밤에는 첫째랑 집에서 자야되니까 
제왕했는데 간병인 쓰고 
오로랑 새벽에 다 갈아주시고 했어요ㅎ


그로미미 빨대컵 쓰고 있는데 물때가 너무 껴서 물때 좀 덜끼는 빨대컵 있을까요?ㅠㅠ

빨대컵 추천해주세요!

전 옥소토트 빨대컵쓰고있어요! 큰거말고 손잡이있는 작은사이즈요 : )
빨대가 십자컷아니고 일자컷이라 세척도 쉽더라구요😆

그로미미는 우유먹을때만 쓰고있습니당ㅎㅎ

전 베베락쓰는데 괜찮은거같아여!

산 것 중에 릿첼꺼 괜찮은거같아요.(4가지 종류써본결과)
모윰이 산것 중 제일 별로였어요.
손잡이 넣고 돌려잠그는 부분이 좀 빡빡해서 제대로 안 잠겨져서 샐때가 많더라구요.

킨토 괜찮다고 들었어요~ 모윰이 저도 제일 별로였어요.. 젖병 괜찮았어서 사봤더니 새는일이 아주 허다해서 킨토 주문해서 오고있네요 ㅎ

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100일 전 아기 놀이 방법

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저 지금 베페왔는데 육아템 추천해주세요!

베페에서 굳이 뭐 사실필욘없어요 그냥 뭐가있구나 구경하는정도 + 돌아다니면서 이것저것 무료로받아오세요 :)

음.. 수전 이랑 밤부베베 거즈손수건 요정도인 거 같아요!
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직접 이것저것 만져도 보고 착용도 해보고 설명도 들어보면서 공부하는 느낌으로 다녀오시면 되어요!