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Caring for newborn skins

Bringing your new baby home🏠 is such a magical and exciting time! However, we completely understand that taking care of their delicate skin, hair, and nails can feel a bit overwhelming, especially if you're a new parent🫠. We are here to share some tips that will make this journey easier and less intimidating for you! How to care for your baby's skin! 💆🏻SkinYour baby's skin is sensitive, so opt for gentle and mild products specifically designed for newborns. Look for baby-friendly cleansers, shampoos, and moisturizers that are free from harsh chemicals and fragrances. Keeping it simple will help prevent any potential irritation or discomfort.💅NailsTo prevent accidental scratches, keep your baby's nails short and smooth. Use baby-sized nail clippers or emery boards designed specifically for infants. Choose a time when your little one is calm and relaxed, and be sure to have good lighting to help you see what you're doing. Take it slow and be extra cautious to avoid any mishaps.🪮HairWhen it comes to their hair, gently wash it with a soft baby brush or a mild shampoo, being careful not to tug or pull. Baby hair is delicate and may not require frequent washing, so follow your baby's cues and adjust accordingly.How to protect your baby's skin from bug bites Dress your little one in clothing that not only shields them from the sun but also helps keep those bugs away🦟. For babies over 2 months old, it's safe to use insect repellents containing up to 30% DEET. Just spray it on your hands first, then gently apply it to their exposed skin and clothing, being careful to avoid the mouth and eyes. Once you're back inside, make sure to wash it off🛁. More tips to protect your baby's skin from the weather To protect your baby's skin from the weather, dress them in lightweight, breathable clothing with sun protection and use a wide-brimmed hat👒 and sunscreen for sunny days. In colder weather, layer their clothing, cover their head and extremities, and avoid exposure to extreme cold or drafts. Shield them from the wind with stroller covers or blankets🧶! 

Caring for your newborn's umbilical cord stump

What's an umbilical cord stump?During pregnancy, the umbilical cord provides nourishment and oxygen to your baby from the placenta👶. It connects to your baby's abdomen through an opening that will later become their belly button. Once your baby is born, they can breathe on their own and receive nourishment through feeding🍼.When does the umbilical cord fall off?The umbilical cord stump usually falls off within 7 to 21 days, showing that the belly button is healing. Keep the area clean and dry during this time🧹. If the stump doesn't come off or falls off too early, contact the doctor for further evaluation. After the stump falls off naturally, a small amount of bleeding is normal🩸, similar to a scab. However, if the bleeding continues or resumes even after applying gentle pressure, inform the doctor.Some tips until your baby's umbilical cord stump falls off:🧸Keep the stump and the surrounding area clean and dry. Use warm water and a mild soap🧼 to gently clean around the base of the stump, then make sure to dry it thoroughly. You can use clean cotton swabs to help with cleaning. No need to clean the stump itself unless it accidentally gets dirty, like during a messy diaper change. In that case, simply cleanse it with warm water and dry it afterward.🧸Fold your baby's diaper away from the stump. Or look for newborn diapers with a special cut-out space for the stump. This allows air to circulate🌬️ and prevents contact with your baby's pee. Remember to change your baby's diaper frequently to avoid urine soaking toward the stump.🧸Skip the alcohol application on the stump. While it used to be recommended in the past, we now know that allowing the stump to naturally dry on its own leads to faster healing without any increased risk of infection.🧸Opt for loose-fitting clothing until the stump falls off. Avoid dressing your baby in bodysuit-style undershirts. If it's warm outside, a diaper, and a loose T-shirt will do the trick, allowing air to circulate and speeding up the drying process😉.

The breastfeeding diet

'You are what you eat!' You've probably heard this phrase a lot. Then let's put this theory to breastfeeding - My breast milk should be what I eat😮! Is it really true? Here is a guide for how to get the right nutrition to produce a healthy meal for your little one! (But don't worry, it will be much easier than a pregnancy diet😉)What can I eat?Actually, the foods and drinks you intake don't directly affect the basic fat-protein-carb combo of breast milk. In fact, your body will take nutrients that are already stored to produce milk🍼. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't care about your diet! Your goal during nursing is to avoid depleting the body's store of nutrients.A nutritious diet for breast milk is not much different from the healthy diets we used to try before pregnancy. Protein, whole grains, vegetables and fruits, and high-fat foods are recommended to consume on a daily basis, along with calcium, iron, vitamin C and Omega-3s💊. Also, your breast milk changes the taste and smell depending on what you eat, and your little one will get introduced to a variety of different flavors!What should I be aware of?You should still be aware of too much caffeine, high-mercury fish, and some herbal teas or supplements that are not proven safe😿. Alcohol is a slightly different story. I understand how you've been waiting to have a sip of cold wine and beer after birth, and yes, you can drink alcohol while breastfeeding (yay😺!), but, there are a few things you should keep in mind before starting to drink. If possible, try to drink after nursing, or wait at least 2 hours before nursing to avoid alcohol affecting your milk. Also, heavy drinking may affect your baby, so moderate drinking is advised.How much water should I take?Drinking more water is always good. Especially in the weeks after birth and during the nursing period, water helps your body to recover and stimulate better. Technically you need to drink about 128 ounces of fluids a day🌊, but you get most of it covered by your meals during the day. (so you don't need to drink 16 glasses of water every day! phew) To make sure you are getting enough water, drinking a cup of water at every nursing session is the easiest way to track. Not drinking enough water won't affect your milk supply. However, your urine will get darker and scanter, and can set you up for health issues such as constipation and fatigue! So let's keep in mind to drink a fresh cup of water more often😉!

How to change a baby's diaper

Changing diapers may not be the most glamorous part of parenthood, especially when you have to do it frequently, sometimes even hourly😫. But trust me, it's an important part of taking care of your baby's health and hygiene. That's why we've put together a comprehensive guide on how to change your baby's diaper with ease! Are you ready? 🙂How to tell a wet diaper from a dry diaperWhen your baby feels uncomfortable with the diaper, you'll probably notice right away with their grimaces😭. Sometimes your sense of smell helps you to figure out the timing for a diaper change! But, as we all know, the quickest and the most accurate way is to open the diaper and check inside😉. If you are in a situation where you can't check the diaper directly, use the diaper with a color-changing stripe that is liquid-sensitive. How to change a baby's diaper🧸Step 1: Find a clean and soft surface to lay your baby onThis can be a changing table, dresser with a changing pad, crib, or bed🛏️. If you are changing your baby's diaper on a surface other than the designated changing table, be sure to cover it with a protective cloth. Your baby's safety and comfort are paramount, so choose a spot that will work best for both of you.🧸Step 2: Clean Your Baby and open up the diaperIf a diaper is wet, fold the dirty diaper underneath your baby (so the clean, outer side is now under their bottom) and wipe the area clean.For a solid diaper, use the diaper itself to wipe away as much as possible, then fold it underneath as previously described. Lift your baby's legs🦵 and clean their front thoroughly with warm water or wipes, making sure to clean all creases. Keep both legs up to clean your baby's bottom thoroughly.Once you finish cleaning your baby's diaper area, remove the soiled diaper and place a fresh one underneath your baby before releasing his legs. Pat your baby dry before applying any diaper rash creams or putting on a clean diaper.🧸Step 3: Dispose of the dirty diaperFor disposable diapers, wrap the diaper into a ball and use the tab fasteners to secure it before disposing of it in a diaper pail, trash can, or plastic bag. When you're out and about, be sure to carry a stash of plastic bags to place the dirty diaper inside. (Remember, never flush diapers down the toilet!)Now that you've finished changing the diaper, dress your baby in fresh clothes and/or sheets as needed. 👚Tips for a diaper change!Should I wake my baby up for a diaper change?Shhh🤫, unless the baby is uncomfortable or has a poopy diaper, you don't need to wake him up. No need to change their diaper in the middle of the night because it will distract your baby from going back to sleep. If your little one is sleeping calmly, leave them until they wake up naturally. Is it safe to use baby powder or diaper creams on my baby?Doctors don't recommend using baby powder during diaper changes or bath time. It is because baby powder may contain talc or cornstarch, which can irritate their already sensitive skin. Also, if the baby inhales the powder, it can be harmful to their respiratory system, which is still delicate😮. Diaper creams, baby lotion, or oil are also not needed when changing diapers unless your baby has a diaper rash. Instead, develop a habit of air drying the baby's bottom in between diaper changes to avoid skin rashes. 

DTap 2nd dose

Why should I take the vaccine?💡The second dose of the DTaP vaccine is essential for your little one's complete protection against diphtheria, tetanus, and pertussis. This second dose will serve as a booster to strengthen immunity and will ensure sustained defense of the virus until the 3rd shot. How to get the vaccine?💉The third dose of the vaccine will be given after 2 months of the first dose, which is usually when your baby is 4 months old. Your hospital will set an appointment for the 2nd dose at your visit for the first dose of the DTaP vaccine.TMI from Baby Billy👩‍⚕️:Any side effects from the vaccine?Generally, the side effects of the DTaP vaccine are mild, but for some parents, the vaccine is infamous for rising fever in babies. The spot where the shot was given could get sore and swollen, so your baby might get fussy on the day of the shot. The side effect usually goes away within a few days, but if it lasts more than two days, you should visit the doctor and discuss it.How does diphtheria spread?Like other viruses, diphtheria spreads through the coughs and sneezes of an infected person. If a person doesn't receive any treatment for the virus, they can spread the bacteria for about 2 weeks after infection. Therefore, if you think your baby is showing some symptoms of diphtheria, you should discuss it with the doctor right away to prevent the virus to spread.

Never leave children in cars!

Let's say you were driving alone with your child to get some quick groceries.🚗 When you arrive at the parking lot, you find out your child is asleep in the back seat of your car. Now, the temptation might arise in your mind: 'Can I leave my child in the car and get things done real quick? It's only going to take a few minutes!'🤔Yes, I know it is tempting, but you gotta keep in mind that the definite answer is: You are never allowed to leave your child alone in a car, in any situation!Why is that?The internal temperature of a parked car may vary by up to 40°C from the outside temperature, especially in summer🔥. Under these circumstances, children can get dehydrated and suffer life-threatening heatstroke. This can even lead them to death!😨  Accidental leaving in carsRaising a child sometimes leads you to  get into unintended situations. If you are tired, stressed, or distracted, you might face the situation of accidentally leaving your child in the car. 😪 (If this has happened to you already, this actually happens quite a lot. So don't blame yourself, you are not alone!) To prevent this from happening, making a habit of always checking the backseat before getting out of the car would be helpful. Also there are many products that can help you, such as car seat sensors or back seat video monitors, so it would be good to get help from these devices as well.👍Accidental locking in carsSometimes children accidentally lock themselves in the car.😮 Newer cars often have auto-lock features, so it will be helpful if you can make a habit of winding windows down before putting children in the car. Keep your car keys with you all the time, and do not let your child play with car keys.🔑 Children might get curious about all the interesting buttons inside the car. Tell them pushing buttons in the car could be dangerous, and teach them not to do so!

Things that you didn't know about newborn sleep

How much sleep do newborns need?Newborns sleep about 14 to 18 hours a day in the early weeks😪! Usually, they sleep for 2 to 4 hours every 2 hours day and night because they wake up when they get hungry. If your baby has a small stomach or is a glutton, she or he will wake up more compared to other babies. Also, babies are born with their days and nights reserved, so they become night owls and sleep more during the daytime. (This is why parents of newborns become '🧟zombie-like' in their baby's early weeks!) Fortunately, your baby will start sleeping less during the day and more at night by 8 weeks.Why does your newborn sleep so much?It looks like all your baby does is sleep every day, but don't worry Mom😉! They are doing their jobs in their dreams. A newborn's brain develops as they sleep. All the new information about the world they consumed while they were awake is processed and consolidated during their sleep, so the babies get ready to explore the new environments when they are up again🧠. Physical development also takes place while babies are asleep. Their body processes nutrition and uses them for weight gain and strengthening the organs and joints!Tips for baby sleep🦉Turning night owls into a normal trackYou can start teaching your baby to distinguish day from night, normally from week 2. During the day☀️, interact with your baby while they are awake as much as you can. Keep your home bright, including the baby's room. You don't need to mute all the daytime noises such as phone rings, doorbells, and kitchen noises! It will help your baby to understand the daytime. At night🌙, do the opposite of what you did during the day. Dim the light and keep the noise level low. Don't play with your baby even if they wake up in order to keep the energy level low. When your baby gets used to the cycle, it will be much easier for you to deal with their sleep!🦉I still feel like my baby is sleeping too much!Some babies are heavy sleepers😴. They don't wake up to eat as often as they need to. Baby's sleep habits are all different depending on each of their personalities. You don't need to force the baby to wake up if they sleep well peacefully✨. However, if they sleep more than 6 hours straight, you might want to gently wake them up to avoid hypoglycemia and dehydration. If you are unsure, it will be helpful if you record your baby's sleep routine and intakes to see if they are sleeping and eating enough.

What should your breast milk look like?

What color pops into your mind when you think of breast milk🍼? For me, it's pure white! So I was very surprised when I found out the color of breast milk can change color with different hues😮! What breast milk color is normal?The color of breast milk varies for every woman👩. Typical breast milk is white with a yellowish tint, but the color changes depending on the breastfeeding period and the mom's condition. Colostrum, which comes in right after a baby's birth, tends to be yellowish-white. Then the transitional milk, which comes in between colostrum and mature milk🍼, tends to have an orange tint. Mature milk tends to be white like skimmed milk, but again, every woman's milk is different, so there are individual differences.Why does my breast milk change its color?Breast milk can change color depending on what food or medication a mom takes. The color usually changes from yellow to orange-ish colors, but it can also turn into completely different tints of colors, such as black or green😮! Green breast milk happens when mom eats a lot of green foods or supplements like chlorella. Some medications like minocycline can turn breast milk into black. Even though your milk color changes, it is completely normal as long as your doctor has cleared that your medications are safe👌.When to call the doctorIf you see blood in your breast milk, you must observe👀! It often happens when there's bleeding on the nipples, or when blood flow to the breasts increases. Both cases are normal in the early days, so you don't need to worry about it as well😌. But in rare cases, the blood could be a sign of breast cancer, mastitis, or papillomas. So if you notice blood you don't know where it's coming from, there is no reason to hesitate to call the doctor and discuss it.

Parenting stress

That nervous feeling when you're about to meet your baby for the first time is engraved in your heart.💓 You just look at them in awe every time and gain strength to become the best parents for them. But you can't avoid stress along the way…Parenting stress👪What is parenting stress?Parenting stress is the distress when you feel you can't cope as a parent.😞 After pregnancy, expectations and demands placed on you are so high that you seem to run out of resources and strength to meet them. 👪What causes parenting stress?The causation varies depending on each family. Stress can originate from poor economic status, inadequate support system, and exposure to hostility.⚔️ Anything that makes you worry about your ability to protect your child and thrive can contribute to parenting stress.🙁Ways to cope with parenting stress👪Reach out for supportParenting is a lot easier if you have your supporters on your side.👪 Contact your friends, family members and especially your partner to share your feelings. You can always count on their support for emotional support, financial aid💰 and childcare help.If you don't live near friends or relatives, you can look for local parenting cooperatives, online communities and trained therapis‍ts.😀 Enrolling in parenting classes can be helpful too as you can seek new friends, reduce your feelings of guilt and stress while gaining more knowledge.👪Avoid unnecessary exposure to signals that drag you downAfter a very brief exposure to negative emotional content, it's natural that you pay attention more to upsetting images, replay bad memories and worry about the future. Such thoughts keep circulating in your head, causing more anxiety and gloom.😥Overdosing on bad news spikes up your stress levels, undermines yourself and hurts you gradually. Instead, try to put yourself together, think constructively, think brightly.🤔 Everything will be just fine and you can do it! 👪Focus on the goodYou can induce good moods by downloading happy memories into your head. Do you remember when your little one just took the first step or called your name for the first time? When you return home from work, remember how you feel when you see your child's smiles and hugs.🤗Reflect on good memories and read jokes, uplifting stories to make you feel better. Focusing on acts of kindness and positive messages will help you decrease stress responses.😀👪Re-appraise the situationWe often think that we are good at predicting things if we have a plan. Actually, we are pretty bad at anticipating future discomforts. Sometimes, stressful things just occur along the way.😞When bad things happen, you may find a coping strategy when you reconsider the situation from a new angle. Stop dwelling too much on your personal emotional reactions, try to view the problem with more objectivity.💪 

How to swaddle a baby

Swaddling your baby is not only simple but also offers fantastic benefits👼. It helps keep them cozy, secure, and can minimize sudden movements that might disturb their sleep!How swaddling works!❣️Promoting Comfort and Security for Your BabySwaddling is a gentle and effective practice that helps your baby feel safe and secure during their adjustment to the outside world. This technique recreates the cozy sensation they experienced in the womb, providing a comforting environment☂️. Swaddling prevents the startle reflex, promotes better sleep patterns, and contributes to a content and less fussy baby❣️Promoting Calm Sleep for Your BabySwaddling is a fantastic way to prevent your adorable baby from involuntarily flailing their tiny arms and legs, triggering the startle reflex that can disrupt their sleep😴. This reflex can hinder your baby from settling down and achieving deep, restful sleep. However, by utilizing a swaddle, you can effectively mitigate the startle reflex until your baby naturally outgrows it.Let's swaddle your baby🧸Essential Supplies to Have on HandGetting ready for your baby's bath time is an important step in ensuring a comfortable and enjoyable experience. To make the process smooth and cozy, it's a great idea to gather all the essentials beforehand. Here are a few must-have items🎒: a snug and warm swaddle blanket, a soft undershirt, and a fresh diaper. By having these ready, you can swiftly wrap your baby up, preventing their body temperature from dropping and ensuring a pleasant bath time for both of you.🧸Step-by-Step Guide for Your Baby's ComfortStart by laying the swaddle blanket in a diamond shape, folding it downwards, and placing the undershirt and diaper on top. Carefully lay your baby on the blanket, slipping on the undershirt and securing the diaper. Cradle their right arm with your right hand, tuck the left side of the blanket under their left armpit, and fold the lower part of the blanket. Continuing with the swaddle, wrap your baby's body to the left, tucking the right side of the swaddle blanket completely😺. This ensures a secure and cozy swaddle. Take a moment to make any necessary adjustments, eliminating any folded areas that might cause discomfort. It's important to note that swaddling provides warmth and a sense of security for your baby while allowing them to move comfortably. Tips for swaddling babyMake the swaddles snug but not too tight, allowing room for a couple of fingers between the blankets and your babies' chests. If they like their arms free🐥, it's totally fine to leave one or both out. If your babies wiggle a lot, give them a break to squirm before swaddling again. If they consistently try to wriggle out, try different swaddle types or consider stopping. Swaddling is soothing for preemies too, just bring their hands together on their chests👐.